Monday 28 October 2013

Doing, Being, and the "Jesus Prayer"

Doing, Being, and 

The "Jesus Prayer"


 

Gospel for the 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
Luke 18.9-14



One of my favorite speakers in the area of religious education is David Wells from the diocese of Plymouth, England. He gives a great talk on how our society values what people do, rather than who people are.

He has now come to a point in his life where, when people ask him "What do you do?" He replies, 
"Sometimes, when I'm all alone, I dance naked in the living room. What do you do???"

We all fall into this trap. Just today I met up with a former student, and asked what his brother  was "up to". I was glad to hear about his success as a welder for the oil patch, but I neglected to ask further about his family, his health, or his general well-being.

We are far too concerned with the doing.  And now, as a (semi) retired educator, I am keenly aware that my worth is not tied up in how active I am, or what to do with my life.

No, my worthiness is simple- I am a child of God.
 And as I child of God, I rely on His grace and mercy.

 Which brings us to the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector, which, like all of Jesus' parables, is rich in meaning and deceptively simple.

A quick explanation of the two main characters. (In a previous blog I mentioned that characters in Jesus' parables "remain nameless"- a reminder that they represent all of us) Pharisees were the religious elite- they always went waaaaayyyy beyond the expectations of the Law- instead of fasting once a week, they'd fast twice, etc.  Tax collectors  were the most despised traitors of the Jewish people- not only would they collect taxes from their people for the Romans, but would keep a healthy portion for themselves.

So here we have, based on what they do, the "best" and the "worst" of Jewish society.

Jesus then gives and account of who they are. The Pharisee thanks God that he is not like other people. In fact, his prayer is not to God at all, but a hymn of praise to himself.


The tax collector is a man of few words. And those few words become the core of the centuries old "Jesus Prayer"
"God be merciful to me, a sinner." 
Jesus sums up the scenario by saying: "Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, but whoever humbles himself will be exalted."

 On the surface, it would appear that we need to give our heads a shake when it comes to the way we pray. And that is true, but I think as Catholics we've taken this far too literally. That's the only explanation I can think of as to why we always fill up the back pews first. Or is it so we can make a quick getaway??


No, this isn't just about the way we pray. I think it's all about doing vs. being. 
For God, unlike us, doesn't care about what we do, He'll love us anyway.
 
God cares about who we are.
 
 His sons and daughters.
 
Our response to this amazing reality is simple, really. 
We need to ask ourselves, every day. "Am I being a child of God through  what I do?"
 
More often than not, the answer is "no".
 And that is why, every day, we need to spend some time doing the Jesus Prayer.
For This Week...
Do the "Jesus Prayer":
When you breathe in you pray (out loud or in silence):
O Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God...
 And when you breathe out you pray:
Have mercy on me a sinner.
 
This prayer has been used as a meditation dating back to the early Church. In the Orthodox tradition, it is prayed with little ropes, similar to praying the Rosary in the West. It can prayed while being stuck in traffic, washing the dishes, doing playground supervision, and best of all, your last prayer as you go to sleep.

Have a great week, and remember who, and whose, you are.




Sunday 20 October 2013

Heavy Lifting

Heavy Lifting

 


 
"Jesus told the disciples a parable about their need 
to pray always and not lose heart" Luke 18.1


Gospel for the 29th Sunday of Ordinary Time:
Luke18.1-8 

There are so many profound moments in the celebration of the Mass, but lately I've been reflecting on the words we pray at the beginning of the Eucharistic Prayer:
P: The Lord be with you
R: And with your spirit.
P: Lift up your hearts
R:We lift them up to the Lord
P:Let us give thanks to the Lord our God
R: It is right and just.

Why do we begin this part of the Mass in this way? I think it can be best explained through a careful look at today's Gospel reading. Jesus tells the disciples a parable about a persistent widow and a wicked judge, "who neither feared God nor had respect for any human being." It's a parable of grand contrast, not only the contrast between an evil judge who has everything, and a poor widow who has nothing, but a contrast between that same judge and God the Father. 
Jesus loves those kinds of grand contrasts.
 Earlier in Luke, Jesus exhorts his followers to be persistent in prayer:"Is there any among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion?" (Luke 11.11-12) 
Over and over again, Jesus reminds us to be persistent in prayer.
Here's the problem for most of us:
WE LOSE HEART
Our prayers are not being heard. God must be too busy for us. We pray everyday and nothing changes.
The problem is not with God. The problem is with us.

Imagine for a moment that a parent comes home from work every day, and every day, their teenager asks for money. 
Right off the bat. 
No "Hello, how was your day," etc. 
You would say there was something seriously wrong with the relationship. 
Our prayer lives can be like that.

That is what I think Jesus is getting at, and how we miss the point of this Gospel passage, and the point of prayer.

For teenagers and infants, "it's all about Me"

The Catechism of the Catholic Church sums it up nicely:
"Prayer is the raising of one's mind and heart to God, or the requesting of good things from God" But when we pray, do we speak from the height of our pride and will, or "out of the depths" of a humble and contrite heart? (CCC 2559)


Look at the words at the beginning of the Eucharistic prayer again:

LIFT UP YOUR HEARTS
WE LIFT THEM UP TO THE LORD
The persistence in prayer that Jesus asks of us is to persist in letting go, to surrender our selfishness  and ego. Persist in lifting a changed heart.

That is heavy lifting.

But we give thanks for it.
Because it is right and just. 




For this week...
It's being called "Pope Francis' Five Finger Prayer", but it's been around in various forms for a while. Teach it to your kids, yourself, and those who could benefit from persistent prayer...
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/yimcatholic/2013/09/too-cool-not-to-share-pope-franciss-five-finger-prayer.html  


Monday 14 October 2013

Nine out of Ten

  Nine out of Ten

  Gospel for the 28th Sunday of Ordinary Time: Luke 17:11-19





I'm glad that the Church offers us this Gospel reading for the Thanksgiving weekend.



But not for the obvious reason.

In the story of Jesus healing the ten lepers, we recognize that the lepers have been given a new life and only one, a Samaritan, comes back to offer his gratitude.

Aha! So we should be like the tenth leper, 
and repent when were not...

This is an appropriate reflection.

But perhaps we should be reflecting on this passage as a parable rather than a healing story.

There is a powerful message here, 
not only about gratitude,

But about faith.

In fact, I'd like to call this passage
Nine out of Ten


You see, all ten received the unwarranted and undeserved grace from God.
All ten were given new life!!

Only one came back 
"praising God with a loud voice..."

 Jesus says to him:
"Get up and go on your way,
your faith has made you well."

 This should cause us to wonder about the other nine. Although they were made clean, 
they are not well. 


WE ARE NOT WELL.



PEWResearch's Religion and American Life Project surveyed over 35,000 American adults about their religious affiliation and spiritual life.

Nearly a third of self-identified Catholics believe in an impersonal God.
When the survey asked,
"Which comes closest to your view of God: God is a person with whom people can have a relationship, or God is an impersonal force?"
Only 48% of Catholics were absolutely certain that the God they believed in was a God with whom they could have a personal relationship.

So, despite the fact that we have been graced by God with the gift of faith...
That we have been baptized into the life of Christ and his Church,
That we receive the Body of Christ at Mass...
Many of us, too many of us, do not have a personal relationship with God through his Son Jesus Christ.

48%? Or, as in the Gospel, maybe it's more like
Nine out of ten.



I'm sorry if this was not the Thanksgiving blog you might have expected!!

 But the Gospel is not about 
turkeys and pumpkin pie.

The story of the ten lepers show us that
True gratitude is about
discipleship.

For this week:
1.Tell others that you are thankful for your faith and that you are a laborer in God's vineyard.
2. Ask the Lord for forgiveness when you are not.
If you would like to see more of the statistics on American religious life ( and we in Canada would not be much different) go to:
    













 

Sunday 6 October 2013

Hallowe'en's Teachable Moment

Hallowe'en's Teachable Moment

  In this week's blog, I'm taking a break from sharing my thoughts on Sunday's Gospel, to reflect on an annual tradition for me.

You see, over the past thirty years as a teacher, administrator, and especially as a religious education consultant, I've had to answer the following question, in one form or another:
"Should we be celebrating Hallowe'en in a Catholic school?"

For me the tradition is not Hallowe'en -it's talking or  writing  about it that's my tradition!!
And I'm happy to do it.

I hope my little ramblings here will provide some sound advice for teachers and parents, and anyone else who wonders:

 "Why does Canadian Tire have all their Hallowe'en and Christmas stuff out, and I'm still planting bulbs in my garden???"

(OK, that's probably not first on your mind when you reflect on Hallowe'en.)

Notice how I'm adding the apostrophe? The Blogger dictionary doesn't like it- it would prefer that I would type it as "Halloween" - no apostrophe.

                                                 I refuse.
                        

                          Why?


Because with the apostrophe, we get at the heart of the matter. Hallowe'en is a shortened name for All Hallow's Eve-  the evening or "vigil" before two of the great feasts in our Church year- All Saints Day and All Souls Day.

Vigils before feast days and holy days are quite common in our Church year- the greatest of these is  Holy Thursday, when we begin our holiest days- the Easter Triduum.


Hallowe'en, however. never got quite that much respect to be an "official" vigil of the Church, although special prayer services are certainly celebrated in various countries on October 31st.

But basically, Hallowe'en became a "street vigil" for want of a better term. And many of the traditions (trick or treat, disguises and masks, bonfires, jack-o-lanterns) have their roots in "pagan" harvest festivals.
But like most of our Christian traditions, you can find the adaptation of cultural customs in them. The "profane" then becomes "sacred".

Unfortunately, the "profane" often takes it back. So you can celebrate Christmas without celebrating the Incarnation of Christ, or celebrate Easter without the Resurrection.
Give us presents and candy, but don't give us Jesus.

In some ways this is what happened to All Hallow's Eve. When it came over to America via the Irish and German immigrants (mostly), it soon morphed into a fun thing to do with and for kids.

It soon lost the connect between the night and the next two days.

So we forgot that dressing up as a ghost or a witch or even Satan himself showed that evil had been conquered by Jesus!

Going around in the darkness to houses with lit candles was to remind us of that.


                         We simply forgot.

And with good old free market capitalism, we now have  a crazy assortment of costumes, candies, decorations, Hallmark cards, and REALLY BIG inflatable creatures you can get at Canadian Tire!!


 Some of the costumes, thanks to Hollywood, became very gruesome and violent ( Mommy, can I please go as that serial killer on Friday 13th?? He's really cool! I'm not sure who is the scare du jour this year- Miley Cyrus???) So there has been a real pull back form Hallowe'en from some Christians, and some Catholic Christians, that our kids should not be involved in it at all.

So getting back to the original question,  "Should we be celebrating Hallowe'en in a Catholic school?"  My answer is "yes" with some important provisos:

1. October should not be "Hallowe'en month" in a Catholic school. I'm sure this doesn't happen in your school, but I've been into some Catholic classrooms that look like Canadian Tire- as soon as October 1st comes around, the classroom is entirely
spooked up. Now there are some classrooms that will have a "Thanksgiving motif" until mid-October, and then go all Hallowe'enie. My recommendation- Jazz up the class for maybe the last week. What to do in the meantime?...

2. During the month of October, connect with Church's year.   I mean we should be doing this every month, but October is jammed packed with important days!

October 2nd -Guardian Angels!
October 4th- St. Francis of Assisi!

October 7th- Our Lady of the Rosary!
October 15th- St Teresa of Avila!
October 16th- Saint Marguerite D'Youville ( Canadian)!!
October 18th- Saint Luke!
October 28th- Saints Simon and Jude!
Which brings me to an important little rant,
3. Give more importance to All Saints Day than to its vigil, Hallowe'en.
For the past fifteen years before I retired, our district would not have children attend school on November 1st. Why? Because that would be the date set for the ATA local teacher's "Institute Day", and as part of the local, the Catholic district had little say in setting the date. It was thought that this was the best day for such an event, because the kids would be strung out or OD'd on too much candy, so it would be better if they stayed at home on November 1st.

 (Great. Teach the kids that you can't have a fun night without being hungover the next morning, so you should stay at home.) 


It drove me nuts that we couldn't celebrate in our schools this important part of our faith- "the communion of saints". So, if you are lucky enough to be in school on All Saints Day, spend the day celebrating. Wear Saint costumes! Tell stories of their lives! Eat Hallowe'en candy!

4. Make Hallowe'en the teachable moment.  Let kids know some of the history, and have older kids do some research. If your having class parties or school dances, make some rules about appropriate costumes. The violent stuff is bad, but have you ever gone into one of the Hallowe'en stores and looked at the costumes for girls and women? Yikes, I wasn't kidding when I mentioned Miley! There are definitely some teachable moments about consumerism, sexism, and exploitation! 

Finally,

5. Don't be a Hallowe'en Grinch.  Everyone needs to make the best choices for their kids, and if you think that Hallowe'en is the devil's playground, you need to protect your children.

But do give some thought to my Hallowe'en ramble.

 Personally, I think the devil takes the upper hand when we refuse to make fun of the darkness on Hallowe'en. We're suppose to laugh at the spooks and goblins- courage is one of the gifts of Spirit. And this is the teachable moment. No matter what really scares us- there is no darkness that will stop the LIGHT!! 


 I'm  glad that more and more neighbourhoods are having local parties for kids rather than having them go door to door. It saddens me that children today do not live in the trustworthy environment that I had when I was filling up my pillowcase with candy, going door to door with my brothers. 

That was different time. And prudence is also a gift of the Spirit. So always make sure your kids are safe!

 
Catholic educational leaders should always being mindful of their school's Catholic culture. With my five suggestions in mind, All Hallow's Eve can have it's proper place in the cultural life of a Catholic School.

Make it a teachable moment.