Monday, 28 October 2013

Doing, Being, and the "Jesus Prayer"

Doing, Being, and 

The "Jesus Prayer"


 

Gospel for the 30th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
Luke 18.9-14



One of my favorite speakers in the area of religious education is David Wells from the diocese of Plymouth, England. He gives a great talk on how our society values what people do, rather than who people are.

He has now come to a point in his life where, when people ask him "What do you do?" He replies, 
"Sometimes, when I'm all alone, I dance naked in the living room. What do you do???"

We all fall into this trap. Just today I met up with a former student, and asked what his brother  was "up to". I was glad to hear about his success as a welder for the oil patch, but I neglected to ask further about his family, his health, or his general well-being.

We are far too concerned with the doing.  And now, as a (semi) retired educator, I am keenly aware that my worth is not tied up in how active I am, or what to do with my life.

No, my worthiness is simple- I am a child of God.
 And as I child of God, I rely on His grace and mercy.

 Which brings us to the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector, which, like all of Jesus' parables, is rich in meaning and deceptively simple.

A quick explanation of the two main characters. (In a previous blog I mentioned that characters in Jesus' parables "remain nameless"- a reminder that they represent all of us) Pharisees were the religious elite- they always went waaaaayyyy beyond the expectations of the Law- instead of fasting once a week, they'd fast twice, etc.  Tax collectors  were the most despised traitors of the Jewish people- not only would they collect taxes from their people for the Romans, but would keep a healthy portion for themselves.

So here we have, based on what they do, the "best" and the "worst" of Jewish society.

Jesus then gives and account of who they are. The Pharisee thanks God that he is not like other people. In fact, his prayer is not to God at all, but a hymn of praise to himself.


The tax collector is a man of few words. And those few words become the core of the centuries old "Jesus Prayer"
"God be merciful to me, a sinner." 
Jesus sums up the scenario by saying: "Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, but whoever humbles himself will be exalted."

 On the surface, it would appear that we need to give our heads a shake when it comes to the way we pray. And that is true, but I think as Catholics we've taken this far too literally. That's the only explanation I can think of as to why we always fill up the back pews first. Or is it so we can make a quick getaway??


No, this isn't just about the way we pray. I think it's all about doing vs. being. 
For God, unlike us, doesn't care about what we do, He'll love us anyway.
 
God cares about who we are.
 
 His sons and daughters.
 
Our response to this amazing reality is simple, really. 
We need to ask ourselves, every day. "Am I being a child of God through  what I do?"
 
More often than not, the answer is "no".
 And that is why, every day, we need to spend some time doing the Jesus Prayer.
For This Week...
Do the "Jesus Prayer":
When you breathe in you pray (out loud or in silence):
O Lord, Jesus Christ, Son of God...
 And when you breathe out you pray:
Have mercy on me a sinner.
 
This prayer has been used as a meditation dating back to the early Church. In the Orthodox tradition, it is prayed with little ropes, similar to praying the Rosary in the West. It can prayed while being stuck in traffic, washing the dishes, doing playground supervision, and best of all, your last prayer as you go to sleep.

Have a great week, and remember who, and whose, you are.




Sunday, 20 October 2013

Heavy Lifting

Heavy Lifting

 


 
"Jesus told the disciples a parable about their need 
to pray always and not lose heart" Luke 18.1


Gospel for the 29th Sunday of Ordinary Time:
Luke18.1-8 

There are so many profound moments in the celebration of the Mass, but lately I've been reflecting on the words we pray at the beginning of the Eucharistic Prayer:
P: The Lord be with you
R: And with your spirit.
P: Lift up your hearts
R:We lift them up to the Lord
P:Let us give thanks to the Lord our God
R: It is right and just.

Why do we begin this part of the Mass in this way? I think it can be best explained through a careful look at today's Gospel reading. Jesus tells the disciples a parable about a persistent widow and a wicked judge, "who neither feared God nor had respect for any human being." It's a parable of grand contrast, not only the contrast between an evil judge who has everything, and a poor widow who has nothing, but a contrast between that same judge and God the Father. 
Jesus loves those kinds of grand contrasts.
 Earlier in Luke, Jesus exhorts his followers to be persistent in prayer:"Is there any among you who, if your child asks for a fish, will give a snake instead of a fish? Or if the child asks for an egg, will give a scorpion?" (Luke 11.11-12) 
Over and over again, Jesus reminds us to be persistent in prayer.
Here's the problem for most of us:
WE LOSE HEART
Our prayers are not being heard. God must be too busy for us. We pray everyday and nothing changes.
The problem is not with God. The problem is with us.

Imagine for a moment that a parent comes home from work every day, and every day, their teenager asks for money. 
Right off the bat. 
No "Hello, how was your day," etc. 
You would say there was something seriously wrong with the relationship. 
Our prayer lives can be like that.

That is what I think Jesus is getting at, and how we miss the point of this Gospel passage, and the point of prayer.

For teenagers and infants, "it's all about Me"

The Catechism of the Catholic Church sums it up nicely:
"Prayer is the raising of one's mind and heart to God, or the requesting of good things from God" But when we pray, do we speak from the height of our pride and will, or "out of the depths" of a humble and contrite heart? (CCC 2559)


Look at the words at the beginning of the Eucharistic prayer again:

LIFT UP YOUR HEARTS
WE LIFT THEM UP TO THE LORD
The persistence in prayer that Jesus asks of us is to persist in letting go, to surrender our selfishness  and ego. Persist in lifting a changed heart.

That is heavy lifting.

But we give thanks for it.
Because it is right and just. 




For this week...
It's being called "Pope Francis' Five Finger Prayer", but it's been around in various forms for a while. Teach it to your kids, yourself, and those who could benefit from persistent prayer...
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/yimcatholic/2013/09/too-cool-not-to-share-pope-franciss-five-finger-prayer.html  


Monday, 14 October 2013

Nine out of Ten

  Nine out of Ten

  Gospel for the 28th Sunday of Ordinary Time: Luke 17:11-19





I'm glad that the Church offers us this Gospel reading for the Thanksgiving weekend.



But not for the obvious reason.

In the story of Jesus healing the ten lepers, we recognize that the lepers have been given a new life and only one, a Samaritan, comes back to offer his gratitude.

Aha! So we should be like the tenth leper, 
and repent when were not...

This is an appropriate reflection.

But perhaps we should be reflecting on this passage as a parable rather than a healing story.

There is a powerful message here, 
not only about gratitude,

But about faith.

In fact, I'd like to call this passage
Nine out of Ten


You see, all ten received the unwarranted and undeserved grace from God.
All ten were given new life!!

Only one came back 
"praising God with a loud voice..."

 Jesus says to him:
"Get up and go on your way,
your faith has made you well."

 This should cause us to wonder about the other nine. Although they were made clean, 
they are not well. 


WE ARE NOT WELL.



PEWResearch's Religion and American Life Project surveyed over 35,000 American adults about their religious affiliation and spiritual life.

Nearly a third of self-identified Catholics believe in an impersonal God.
When the survey asked,
"Which comes closest to your view of God: God is a person with whom people can have a relationship, or God is an impersonal force?"
Only 48% of Catholics were absolutely certain that the God they believed in was a God with whom they could have a personal relationship.

So, despite the fact that we have been graced by God with the gift of faith...
That we have been baptized into the life of Christ and his Church,
That we receive the Body of Christ at Mass...
Many of us, too many of us, do not have a personal relationship with God through his Son Jesus Christ.

48%? Or, as in the Gospel, maybe it's more like
Nine out of ten.



I'm sorry if this was not the Thanksgiving blog you might have expected!!

 But the Gospel is not about 
turkeys and pumpkin pie.

The story of the ten lepers show us that
True gratitude is about
discipleship.

For this week:
1.Tell others that you are thankful for your faith and that you are a laborer in God's vineyard.
2. Ask the Lord for forgiveness when you are not.
If you would like to see more of the statistics on American religious life ( and we in Canada would not be much different) go to:
    













 

Sunday, 6 October 2013

Hallowe'en's Teachable Moment

Hallowe'en's Teachable Moment

  In this week's blog, I'm taking a break from sharing my thoughts on Sunday's Gospel, to reflect on an annual tradition for me.

You see, over the past thirty years as a teacher, administrator, and especially as a religious education consultant, I've had to answer the following question, in one form or another:
"Should we be celebrating Hallowe'en in a Catholic school?"

For me the tradition is not Hallowe'en -it's talking or  writing  about it that's my tradition!!
And I'm happy to do it.

I hope my little ramblings here will provide some sound advice for teachers and parents, and anyone else who wonders:

 "Why does Canadian Tire have all their Hallowe'en and Christmas stuff out, and I'm still planting bulbs in my garden???"

(OK, that's probably not first on your mind when you reflect on Hallowe'en.)

Notice how I'm adding the apostrophe? The Blogger dictionary doesn't like it- it would prefer that I would type it as "Halloween" - no apostrophe.

                                                 I refuse.
                        

                          Why?


Because with the apostrophe, we get at the heart of the matter. Hallowe'en is a shortened name for All Hallow's Eve-  the evening or "vigil" before two of the great feasts in our Church year- All Saints Day and All Souls Day.

Vigils before feast days and holy days are quite common in our Church year- the greatest of these is  Holy Thursday, when we begin our holiest days- the Easter Triduum.


Hallowe'en, however. never got quite that much respect to be an "official" vigil of the Church, although special prayer services are certainly celebrated in various countries on October 31st.

But basically, Hallowe'en became a "street vigil" for want of a better term. And many of the traditions (trick or treat, disguises and masks, bonfires, jack-o-lanterns) have their roots in "pagan" harvest festivals.
But like most of our Christian traditions, you can find the adaptation of cultural customs in them. The "profane" then becomes "sacred".

Unfortunately, the "profane" often takes it back. So you can celebrate Christmas without celebrating the Incarnation of Christ, or celebrate Easter without the Resurrection.
Give us presents and candy, but don't give us Jesus.

In some ways this is what happened to All Hallow's Eve. When it came over to America via the Irish and German immigrants (mostly), it soon morphed into a fun thing to do with and for kids.

It soon lost the connect between the night and the next two days.

So we forgot that dressing up as a ghost or a witch or even Satan himself showed that evil had been conquered by Jesus!

Going around in the darkness to houses with lit candles was to remind us of that.


                         We simply forgot.

And with good old free market capitalism, we now have  a crazy assortment of costumes, candies, decorations, Hallmark cards, and REALLY BIG inflatable creatures you can get at Canadian Tire!!


 Some of the costumes, thanks to Hollywood, became very gruesome and violent ( Mommy, can I please go as that serial killer on Friday 13th?? He's really cool! I'm not sure who is the scare du jour this year- Miley Cyrus???) So there has been a real pull back form Hallowe'en from some Christians, and some Catholic Christians, that our kids should not be involved in it at all.

So getting back to the original question,  "Should we be celebrating Hallowe'en in a Catholic school?"  My answer is "yes" with some important provisos:

1. October should not be "Hallowe'en month" in a Catholic school. I'm sure this doesn't happen in your school, but I've been into some Catholic classrooms that look like Canadian Tire- as soon as October 1st comes around, the classroom is entirely
spooked up. Now there are some classrooms that will have a "Thanksgiving motif" until mid-October, and then go all Hallowe'enie. My recommendation- Jazz up the class for maybe the last week. What to do in the meantime?...

2. During the month of October, connect with Church's year.   I mean we should be doing this every month, but October is jammed packed with important days!

October 2nd -Guardian Angels!
October 4th- St. Francis of Assisi!

October 7th- Our Lady of the Rosary!
October 15th- St Teresa of Avila!
October 16th- Saint Marguerite D'Youville ( Canadian)!!
October 18th- Saint Luke!
October 28th- Saints Simon and Jude!
Which brings me to an important little rant,
3. Give more importance to All Saints Day than to its vigil, Hallowe'en.
For the past fifteen years before I retired, our district would not have children attend school on November 1st. Why? Because that would be the date set for the ATA local teacher's "Institute Day", and as part of the local, the Catholic district had little say in setting the date. It was thought that this was the best day for such an event, because the kids would be strung out or OD'd on too much candy, so it would be better if they stayed at home on November 1st.

 (Great. Teach the kids that you can't have a fun night without being hungover the next morning, so you should stay at home.) 


It drove me nuts that we couldn't celebrate in our schools this important part of our faith- "the communion of saints". So, if you are lucky enough to be in school on All Saints Day, spend the day celebrating. Wear Saint costumes! Tell stories of their lives! Eat Hallowe'en candy!

4. Make Hallowe'en the teachable moment.  Let kids know some of the history, and have older kids do some research. If your having class parties or school dances, make some rules about appropriate costumes. The violent stuff is bad, but have you ever gone into one of the Hallowe'en stores and looked at the costumes for girls and women? Yikes, I wasn't kidding when I mentioned Miley! There are definitely some teachable moments about consumerism, sexism, and exploitation! 

Finally,

5. Don't be a Hallowe'en Grinch.  Everyone needs to make the best choices for their kids, and if you think that Hallowe'en is the devil's playground, you need to protect your children.

But do give some thought to my Hallowe'en ramble.

 Personally, I think the devil takes the upper hand when we refuse to make fun of the darkness on Hallowe'en. We're suppose to laugh at the spooks and goblins- courage is one of the gifts of Spirit. And this is the teachable moment. No matter what really scares us- there is no darkness that will stop the LIGHT!! 


 I'm  glad that more and more neighbourhoods are having local parties for kids rather than having them go door to door. It saddens me that children today do not live in the trustworthy environment that I had when I was filling up my pillowcase with candy, going door to door with my brothers. 

That was different time. And prudence is also a gift of the Spirit. So always make sure your kids are safe!

 
Catholic educational leaders should always being mindful of their school's Catholic culture. With my five suggestions in mind, All Hallow's Eve can have it's proper place in the cultural life of a Catholic School.

Make it a teachable moment.




Sunday, 29 September 2013

The GAP

The GAP

"Between you and us, a great chasm has been fixed."
Gospel for Sunday September 29th : Luke 16.19-31


Reflecting on this Sunday's Gospel,  Jesus presents us with the parable of the rich man and Lazarus. It goes like this:

Lazarus (whose name means "hope in God"), is a helpless beggar who lies every day at the gate of the "rich man". (Isn't it interesting that the rich has no name and the poor have the honor of one?). The rich man ignores Lazarus, who dies and goes to heaven. Soon, the rich man himself dies, and finds himself in Hades, begging to have his thirst quenched. Alas,  a great chasm (GAP) has been fixed and there is no crossing. When the rich man asks that Lazarus be sent to his brothers as warning, Abraham reminds him that they have Moses (The Law) and the prophets. When the rich man says that they would believe someone who is from the dead. Jesus ends the parable with one of his best punchlines: "neither will they be convinced even if someone rises from the dead..." 

When we reflect on this parable we must first remember the mission of Jesus - he proclaimed the Kingdom of God at handSo, while this may be a moral parable to remind us of our everlasting destiny, it is really more concerned with us here and now. Today. 

We must first recognize that we ourselves are separated by a GAP.

Our ambitions, greed, and ultimately our fear, keep us from connecting with the poor and downtrodden.
In our western free market culture we can do a great job in keeping the GAP really BIG! 

When I reflected on the parable I was reminded of an overarching irony in the name  "The GAP".  

It was just six years ago when the newspapers were full of stories about the giant clothing chain's use of child labor in sweatshops in India. The GAP responded by stating they were unaware of the problem and would deal with it. 

If you go to their web site you will find all kinds of links to their code of conduct, global sensitivity, environmental friendliness etc.

Look at some other sites and you will find that it still keeps happening
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yafZp8VTbc

The tragedy of the Bangladesh garment fires this summer has brought the problem to our consciousness again- different corporate giants, same GAP.
But here's the problem- we are all standing on the other side from Lazarus.
Who is it that wants the newest style at lowest possible price? As long as we continue to feed our own selfish materialism, we'll continue to have sweatshops and tragedy.

But that's not the only GAP in our life, especially for us as Catholic educators in Catholic schools.

Bridging the GAP
When we can conveniently throw some money into charity, or bring in a bunch of cans of food for the Thanksgiving school liturgy, without any real connection to the poor, then we are not hearing our Church's teaching on social justice.

We are called to solidarity. That means we need to teach our children, and ourselves, that Lazarus is at our doorstep. Lazarus is in our community. Without being in relationship with the downtrodden, there is no chance for social justice.
For this week: Think of ways how you and your students can connect with those who have less than us. When you work on your next charity drive, ask questions about why the poverty exists, and what small steps can you as an individual or as group do.

And always pray- with your heart, mind, soul... and hands.
Let's begin to bridge
The GAP.
 

Monday, 23 September 2013

Would Jesus use a Smart Board?


Would Jesus Use A Smart Board?

Gospel for the 25th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
Luke 16.1-13


In educational circles in Alberta and elsewhere, 21st century learning has been an important vision. To get a sense of it, go to 
http://education.alberta.ca/teachers/aisi/themes/21-century.aspx

So lately I've been spending a great deal of time asking myself, and others, the question, "what does the 21st century religion classroom look like?" I'm glad, for example, that we are finally moving on a new national program for grades 1-9, since the curriculum has not changed for over twenty years.

But will the new curriculum reflect 21st century learning? Will we truly engage our students in the subject, that subject being Jesus Christ?

One of my concerns is that in the rush to get textbooks and manuals into classrooms, there will be little thought to the fact that textbooks and manuals are "more of the same". And jazzing it up with technology does not make it 21c learning and teaching either.

Don't get me wrong. I LOVE using tech, but we have to be very careful not to equate it with learner engagement. Case in point:

1. 30 years ago, a teacher writes all the notes on the chalkboard and gets the kids to write it down. Kids heads hit the desk and they begin to drool (remember Ferris Beuller's Day off? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhiCFdWeQfA)
 2.  25 years ago same teacher gets an overhead. Puts notes on overhead. Same result.
3. 10 years ago, Teacher gets computer and LED projector in his room. Puts notes on Powerpoint. Same results.
4. 3 years ago. Smart board gets installed in the room. Guess what happens? 

If we've learned anything, it's that engagement is the key to successful learning. 
To learn about learner engagement, I suggest we take our clues from the Master Teacher himself.

No not the guy from Ferris Beuller. From Jesus!!

If we look at Sunday's Gospel, Jesus grabs the attention of his listeners by telling a parable that praises the shifty dealings of a dishonest manager! To this day we struggle with this parable. I noticed that the reflection in Living With Christ actually avoided the Gospel all together! I don't blame them!
Jesus was reminding his listeners of the reality that surrounded them - that even the most dishonest of us merits praise, because, they can make a "profit" from that which does not belong to them. We, the children of the light, have given the the gift of eternal life.  Are we doing everything in our power to share that gift? Are we actively proclaiming this GOOD NEWS? Do we spend the gift of our time serving God or the Almighty Dollar? That's how Jesus sums it all up, and leaves it us to move forward and change.
Would Jesus use a Smart Board? Maybe. But in the end, we would all leave the classroom changed.
For us as Catholic educators, let's keep that as our ultimate lesson plan.
It goes waaaaaayyyyy beyond the 21st century! 


Sunday, 15 September 2013

Touching Heaven


Touching Heaven

Gospel for 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time:
Luke 15.1-32

Now that school has been in for two weeks (or longer if you are in a year-round school community), most likely the honeymoon is over. I mean, all attempts by students (and staff??) to be on their very best behaviour has started to wear thin. Why? Simple- we're back into a world of relationships, differences, change and conflict.

Now there are timeouts, written apologies...
And worse.


 

School discipline can be one of the most stressful parts of teaching and learning. Are we being "too lenient"? "Too tough"? How many staff meeting have we attended where this is the number one topic? Achieving consensus is a monumental task. 
But a necessary one.




As Catholic educators, we must make our decisions on school discipline based on Gospel values. Somehow we must strike the balance between justice, 

mercy,  and 

forgiveness.



I do not claim to have the answer for any school or district. Because they all have a particular culture.



But, I do know that Jesus gives us some insight on what it means to forgive in the 

Parable of the Forgiving Father

Considering the Parable of The Forgiving Father.


Traditionally known as the Parable of the Prodigal Son, the emphasis is really on the mercy and love of the Father. Read the parable again.
Read it carefully
 

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%2015:%2011-32&version=NRSVCE

Like all of Jesus' parables, there is much that can be gleaned. I would like us to consider the depth of love shown by the Father. What do we discover?

First of all, the younger son has found himself at the bottom of the heap after squandering his inheritance. He decides to go back to his Father, not because he is repentant but because he is hungry!! He even makes up a good line about sinning against heaven, and no longer worthy blah blah blah... Initially, he just wants get back to some comfort.

But then something happens.

The father runs to him "while he was still far off". Yes, he is far off physically, but he is also far off in the relationship!! When the Father puts his arm around him and kisses him, the prodigal says his rehearsed lines. Whether he is sincere or not doesn't matter to the Father.
His son is back from the dead!!
Now, Jesus is not implying that forgiveness is cheap. What He is showing is that the love of the Father overpowers our weakness and excuses. 

I love the last part of the parable, because we can relate so closely to the elder brother. Remember that the firstborn has all the rights of inheritance, so he must have been angry from the get go when the Father gave half to the younger son. 

The elder brother hears the music, but does not enter. Rather than asking the Father what is going on, he asks a slave. The Father goes out to him  when he doesn't go to the party. Then the elder son complains that the "fatted calf" the best of the best, is given to the "sinner". He complains " you have never given me even a young goat so that I might celebrate with my friends..."
 Interesting that he didn't want to celebrate with his Father???
The Father then insists that celebration is in order because this brother of yours was dead and has come to life; he was lost and has been found.

In other words, we touch heaven when we celebrate forgiveness. It is at the heart of who we are. It is also, of course, at the heart of our greatest Christian prayer, the Our Father.
An Important Question
As Catholic educators, and especially teachers and administrators of Catholic schools, an important question must be asked:
Is my school a school of forgiveness?
When children break the rules, and they receive consequences, do they also receive forgiveness? Is the forgiveness explicitly said, or is it "you're back. we'll carry on as if nothing happened."

And what about the adults in the building? 
Are we models of forgiveness? Do we continually judge our peers based on mistakes they made last week, or last month, or last year?

We've all heard of the seven deadly sins. But the eight is the deadliest. It is the sin of withholding forgiveness.
For this week, ask the Holy Spirit to give you the courage to forgive others. Be explicit in your forgiveness. Go to them, or write them a letter (no texts or emails).
And maybe the first step is to allow yourself to be forgiven. Don't sit on the doorstep of God's love. Turn to him. He'll come running.
And you'll touch heaven.